Is Passive Aggressive Behavior Destroying Your Marriage?

"The 4 Steps to Free Your Marriage From Passive Aggression ” Program

The communication in your marriage has become strained. You’ve begun to clam up; your wife continues to call you a passive aggressive husband. You are hoping that your approach will send her the message that you need peace and quiet. It is not working because discussions are escalating into fights. It’s a vicious cycle perpetuated by her feeling isolated and protesting loudly, provoked by your silence, which prompts you naturally to take refuge in more silence. Meanwhile, your relationship continues in a downward spiral.

The "4 Steps to FREE Your Marriage of Passive Aggression" is our revolutionary system comprised of four dynamic components that will change your marital relationship forever. In it, we teach you how to identify and change behaviors produced by an old approach that simply isn’t working. After applying our proven program you will know how to best approach your wife, how to solve differences between you, and how to express your needs so they are heard and acted on as part of the marriage deal.

Our program was developed by a team of relationship experts, and has been perfected over the course of 6 years. It has changed the lives of hundreds of people and played a part in healing countless relationships, providing them with the right approach and the right tools to produce positive change.

When you immerse yourself in this pioneering program, you’ll begin walking on a structured path that will ultimately result in understanding the origins of your passive aggressive behaviors, being able to use better communication skills here and now with your wife, feeling more comfortable expressing your true feelings, and enjoying your relationships more than ever before.

Here’s how:

 The Passive Aggressive
Self Assessment:     

You’ll begin by taking The Passive Aggressive Self Assessment, to identify whether or not you have common passive aggressive traits. By understanding what these traits are – and if you possess them or not – you’ll understand how to deal with and correct those characteristics. It is the foundation for the rest of the program, because it reveals to you the hidden childhood roots of some behaviors that were once useful but today are counterproductive.  This psychology-based test is done by yourself, in privacy.

"I'm an artist at making my wife crazy!"

 I got to take the test using an invented name...when I got the responses, I was shocked at the profile of my own behaviors described there...What I've told myself that were protective behaviors, like not telling her about my work difficulties, ended up being a huge problem when she discovered that I almost lost the only income we have.

The worst aspect is my automatic tendency to block whatever she proposes... I know how she is expecting me to behave, and when I find this expectation, immediately do the opposite. My reaction is so fast that I haven't observed it before...I covered it up thinking that it was constructive opposition, but she calls this attitude of mine "sabotage." The truth is that when I come up with something different to create a fight,we don't get to finish any of the home projects waiting for us.

NOW, when I know what needs to be done and still wish to retreat and be alone, and let her work by herself...I see this attitude as real sabotage, and remind myself that this option is no longer a choice for me.

And it makes such a difference! I can tell Nina about my temptation to frustrate her, and she tells me about how well we both will feel when we have finished painting the bedroom, and I feel motivated to help us both."

Amir Gonzalez

The Book: 

"The Silent Marriage Solution:

How stopping passive aggression improves your relationship,

and makes your marriage stronger"

Stopping Passive Aggression Workbook

The Silent Marriage Solution Book

  • A detailed framework in four lessons to better understand passive aggressive traits, why they manifest, and how to correct them.
  • Revolutionary tools that work to produce steady, positive behavioral change.
  • Success stories of the men (and their happy wives!) who have used this model to change their lives and save their marriages.

How Does It Work?

After identifying potential passive aggressive traits, you’ll get to the core of the program written by relationship expert Neil Warner.The Silent Marriage Solution: How stopping passive aggression improves your relationship, and makes your marriage stronger," explores how passive aggression starts and how you can correct it. The book contains practical applications of each concept and are easy to read and understand. No psychology classes or dictionaries are required!

It is your guide to understanding and changing your communication style from passive aggressive to a healthier form that will benefit both you and your wife.

Among valuable skills, the book will give you…

  • Lessons to teach you how to stop the ‘silent treatment’ and other destructive habits
  • Personal and practical guidance to improve your relationships TODAY
  • Exercises that measure your progress and help you sharpen your new skills

You come away with…

  • A detailed framework to better understand passive aggressive traits, why they manifest, and how to correct them;
  • Revolutionary ideas that work to produce steady, positive behavioral change.
  • Success stories of the men (and their happy wives!) who have used this model to change their lives and save their marriages.

The Essential Workbook to

The Silent Marriage Solution:
How stopping passive aggression improves your relationship, and makes your marriage stronger.

 

The Silent Marriage Solution Workbook

The Silent Marriage Solution Workbook

To maximize your benefits from the book, you will also receive the companion manual: The Workbook for The Silent Marriage Solution: How stopping passive aggression improves your relationship, and makes your marriage stronger.” Use this powerful tool at the end of each book chapter to further reinforce key concepts and apply what you’ve learned to your own situations.

FEATURES: The exercises in the workbook show you how the book’s lessons apply to everyday life. Use the workbook to gain valuable insight about past experiences and understand how those experiences have shaped the way you think in the present.

For certain exercises (discovering the roots of hidden anger and discovering the past anger targets, for example), you will be personally guided by your coach. They will provide you with specific insights about your situation based on many of the answers and scenarios you create in your workbook.

"I have spent all my adult life trying to deny my childhood damage...nobody told me that I'm behaving now using the same defences I had when I was 5 years old"

When we had a fight, I usually went into "what I'm doing here..." thinking. I didn't discuss, disagree,  or explain my position to her...It was easy to listen and then go away and do whatever I thought was best for me...

All those past years, I have been in my "self-protective mode" instead of being in a shared perspective of committed relationship...Never really knew what being married entails!

This program taught me several basic things about being with other person that I never learned before...
And, what is the point of defending myself from her? She is not my parents..

David Aldrich

Your Coaching Session:

With this original program, you don’t just get books and self-study materials. We’ll work directly with you, one-on-one, to illuminate the core concepts of the program, apply them to your own solutions, and help you permanently change your life and relationship for the better.

In the 50-minute coaching session, together we’ll…

  • Complete a self-assessment of your communication style.
  • Identify the origin of your mental models and current beliefs.
  • Link your current beliefs and defenses to past experiences.
  • Identify what creates problems in your present situation and find positive tactics to correct them.

This coaching session will be relaxed and informative, pressure free. Many students find that the first coaching session provides them with such a panoramic vision of their relationship dynamics that allows them to experience a perspective they’ve never had before.

"I know now that I can't change how my wife treats me... However, I can change how I treat my wife"

I wanted to let you know that MaryAnn & I are doing better than ever!You helped me so much, ...In the coaching session, I was able to see how I do the same behaviors with MaryAnn that were done to me when I was growing up....My parents never asked me what was what I wanted, and now, I never ask her the same...I assume that whatever I decide is OK, and get furious when she rejects the food I selected for her without asking. So, I keep silent, in the same way my father used to!  I'm now using two strategies my coach taught me:
a) never be silent, get back and say something to keep the conversation going, asking questions, and letting her know I understand her perspective;
b) When we agree on something,  to prevent my brain from twisting the decision and remembering differently, now I'm taking notes, and thus I will not cause her to be upset.
Slowly she has watched me do this battle with my own tendency to sabotage her, and now, she can't help but treat me differently!  Wow! What a find this one was for our relationship!
We are both exceptionally grateful!’’
Lucas Pittman

Your Complete Package

If your relationship is suffering because you are accused of being a passive aggressive husband, you know how frustrating and lonely it feels. The good news is that there is a solution. Our solution has helped hundreds of men fix this problem, change their lives, and save their marriages. It’s in your hands to act now and avoid further deterioration of your marriage.

The regular cost of producing The 4 Steps Relief Plan for Passive Aggression, is $495.00 This is the complete investment necessary for transforming your marriage into a warm and supportive relationship...any time. Because we are now in Launch Week, we have a special offer for you, giving you all this value for a very convenient price!

You’ll receive…

checched The Passive Aggressive Self-Evaluation Test $45.00
checched The Book, "The Silent Marriage Solution:How stopping passive aggression improves your relationship, and makes your marriage stronger." $97.50
checched The Essential Workbook to "The Silent Marriage Solution: How stopping passive aggression improves your relationship, and makes your marriage stronger."
$55.50
checched One in-person 60’ coaching session $199.00
Total $397.00

NOW, you can join "The 4 Steps to FREE Your Marriage of Passive Aggression" during this special promotional week for only $295.00. YES! you will get all the elements of the plan, including a personal supportive coaching session for only $295.00

There’s No Risk Whatsoever!  In fact, I’m so confident that you’ll see improvements in your life and your marriage from this program, that I’ll give you a 30-day guarantee.

If you follow the program and you don’t see positive changes happening fast in your marriage, occurring within the first 30 days, I’ll refund your money. So join us now while this special price is still available, so you can address the need for a different approach to your marriage!

Remember that now you can experience some of these changes:

  • You understand exactly why you have been behaving in this way
  • You get a doable step by step plan to change your previous behaviors
  • You begin to be seen as a sincere person ready to tackle marriage challenges
  • Your self-esteem improves because now you know exactly what you need to do
  • You even get back your wife’s support for this specific process, simply because the other results show her that you’re now on board and deeply involved!

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Neil Warner
Coach and Author
Creative Conflict Resolutions
2805 E. Oakland Park Blvd., # 430
Fort Lauderdale, FL, 33306

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